In my experience, ‘leadership’ is the act of creation that surfs the turbulent waters of transition and does not lose itself (it’s Self) along the way. ... Continue Reading >>
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One Mother’s Transformation: a story, shared
It can be a challenge to accept that transformation happens in a breath... in the blink of an eye... and is a choice. This shared, life-changing experience (below) comes from a woman who has been a part of Stela Murrizi's year-long Unapologetically Unfuckwithable: Embracing the Crone that I AM . Mother to a young girl who came into her life from an ... Continue Reading >>
Commit: 90 Seconds to Change Your World
Every day… at noon, local time…. stop what you’re doing and: Turn your full attention to yourself… to your body… and take 3 long, slow, deep and deliberate breaths. Then, as you take the next long, slow, deep and intentional breath... on the exhale, say calmly and peacefully to yourself: BE STILL... Slowly, take another long, slow, deep and ... Continue Reading >>
Creating Change
Deep and ancient is the lie that binds potential to the limitations of matter. There is no value in struggling with effects in matter. Power lives through exploration and discovery above the Choice Point... in the only place where intention can emerge into reality. ... Continue Reading >>
Stela & Jennifer: Conversations that awaken!
Another layer presents, allowing a deeper dive into the untapped potential that lives in our silence. Stela Murrizi just posted in response to Jennifer Hatt's recent blog on Pen and Punishment, adding thoughts of her own as well as a link to a recorded conversation that she and Jennifer recently had. In this compelling exploration, they delve into the ... Continue Reading >>
Jennifer Hatt: Pen and Punishment
Another great offering from Jennifer Hatt! Putting our innermost thoughts to the page is a metaphor for being both willing and able to have the truth of who we are be revealed for all to consider. Once we do so, what lives in us is no longer 'private' - our secret world has emerged for all to see. "Better to play our cards close to the chest", we say. ... Continue Reading >>
‘Truth’ as Deception
Some things bear repeating. I posted the original blog in May, 2020. Although it seems like a lifetime ago, it still feels as if it were yesterday. It would also seem that the chasm has both deepened and widened when it comes to making the leap into an expression of 'being' this is relevant and meaningful; and that will allow for resilience in an ... Continue Reading >>
Relationships
The most valuable currency of the future will be relationships that you trust. ... Continue Reading >>
Intimacy: Looking in All the Wrong Places
Recently, I had a compelling exploration with two amazing young women on the topic of intimacy. I am blessed with a 'retirement' that continues to be filled with women of courageous heart and expansive mind with insatiable appetites for discovery and their own evolution. As they evolve, so do I... in a never-ending shared dance of possibility and ... Continue Reading >>
Line of Enquiry
The line of enquiry you’re willing to initiate will be what determines the quality of your life. Are you willing to be annoying? ... Continue Reading >>
Stela Murrizi: Tips on Choosing Joy this Holiday Season!
"How you relate to life is a matter of what you choose to prioritize in your mind with the things you focus on. I know, from personal experience, that what we think we must prioritize doesn’t feel like a choice because we feel taken by the thing we are habitually focused on. Therein lays the predicament – the capacity to notice choice has become hijacked by ... Continue Reading >>
In a Chaotic World: making room for RIG
In the Spirit of these times, perhaps what would most support Life is not more 'stuff' (or a sense of obligation to engage when under its thin veneer lurks fear, agitation and a nagging sense of the unknown and unknowable) but instead, the simplicity of an intentional pause to reclaim the internal sovereignty that is our Divinity... waiting to be ... Continue Reading >>
Living Fully
A Life fully-lived casts no shadows. A Life half-lived - seeking to hide while emerging - plays a game with itself that cannot be won. ... Continue Reading >>
Celebrating our Becoming
We all know that there is always more - and sometimes, we are wise to just stop… take a breath… and fully appreciate the road travelled. Stop... notice... and celebrate just how far our journey has brought us; how many insights and discoveries we have ‘become’ the living expression of; and just how courageous and deeply committed we have proven ourselves ... Continue Reading >>
ARC: Alliance for Responsible Citizenship – Inaugural Conference
"The ARC of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice." The newly-minted Alliance for Responsible Citizenship (ARC) recently held its inaugural conference in London, UK. The brainchild of Dr. Jordan Peterson, more than 1000 of the world's cutting-edge thinkers gathered to reconsider how else we might choose to create a future for ourselves, ... Continue Reading >>
Wendy McGean: In Conversation with Louise
What a delightful opportunity that was! I got to spend time in conversation with a woman who is deeply committed to her own journey of discovery. Without imposition of any particular direction, the stream-of-consciousness led the way, for us both. Wendy McGean is a Certified CODE Model Coach™. Her new podcast is a dive into exploring: "How else might ... Continue Reading >>
Stela Murrizi: A Mother’s Internal Cues Matter to Our Children’s Evolution
"How many children grow up to feel unwanted by their mothers? And then spend the rest of their lives trying desperately to “be somebody” while perpetually battling a perpetual inner war of never enough. How many mothers mean to abandon their children? What is abandonment, anyway? Perhaps we’ll start here. Because abandonment is a nominalization. It ... Continue Reading >>
Living at the Edge of Distinction
I do not know what destiny you will choose to create for yourself in the midst of what seems to be an intentional and expansive press for us to lose our minds, abandon intentional will and choose death. Our own death and the death of others who seek to call us into the worst expression of our potential. And perhaps - at some deeper level of truth - to ... Continue Reading >>
Sheila Winter Wallace: ‘Decloaking’ 5-day on ZOOM – Oct. 1 to 5
"A virtual, small-group, WEL-Systems® intensive for entrepreneurial women, intended to shift your perspective about how you see your world and your place in it, so that you stop playing second fiddle to your own life and confidently reclaim the required and essential position of first violin. You know what the ‘status quo’ experience feels like in your ... Continue Reading >>
Leadership
How can you tell you're in the presence of leadership? Something inside you awakens and calls you forward into a better version of yourself. By that measure, how are you feeling about the leaders in our world, today? Perhaps it is your time... ... Continue Reading >>
The 30-Second Pause: Pivot for Potential
At some point, each of us must decide: from which side of the dotted line (Quantum Biological Human™) do we choose to engage? Do we choose to live from habit and repetition or do we choose to live from potential? The outcome of that choice determines whether we live IN ’the muck’ or whether we live FROM possibility. Lately, I have been in frequent ... Continue Reading >>
Jennifer Hatt: The Power of Salty Surrender
Fresh from a 5-day Decloaking and Living Authentically transformational intensive with Stela Murrizi in Dartmouth, NS, a new wave of insight emerges to become the courage to engage! It is not by accident that post-tropical storm Lee was drawn to where the action was. :) Here is a taste of discovery, from Jennifer's new blog post: "I have spent much of ... Continue Reading >>
The Bigger Picture: Richard Dolan and Paul Wallis
In the world of human evolution, willingness makes room for ability to unfold. Without willingness - and regardless of skill level - nothing changes. If you are not yet familiar with the work of Richard Dolan and/or Paul Wallis, you may find it meaningful to explore and discover. ... Continue Reading >>
AI: A future of even greater manipulation?
Were you to make the time to explore recent conversations with those on the cutting edge of AI, you may find yourself numbed by the potential for 'reality' to disappear into a bubbling stew of newly-created 'truths' for you to absorb. How will you be able to tell what will contribute to your own intentions? How will you define those intentions for ... Continue Reading >>
Boundaries
A boundary is not a betrayal of another - it is evidence of your refusal to betray yourself. ... Continue Reading >>
“Decloaking and Living Authentically” coming to Dartmouth, NS!
An opportunity not to be missed! Join Stela Murrizi - Certified CODE Model Coach™ and WEL-Systems® Educator : September 8 - 12, 2023, in Dartmouth, NS Discover a powerful process for becoming both willing and able to create your meaningful Life. Beyond will power and determination; beyond struggle and mindless repetition, you'll explore how you got to ... Continue Reading >>
Navigating Chaos: Layers of Loss
Today brings the third and final sound clip from a recent Navigating Chaos experience. This one explores the many layers of the process of loss, encouraging discovery of the unexamined and often unclaimed, unique insights that loss can provoke. Too often, habits and history limit who we can become from embracing loss as the invitation to create, ... Continue Reading >>
Jennifer Hatt: Feeding Ourselves in the New Millennium
"Nourishment for a healthy life goes way beyond proteins and vitamins and dietary fibre. The food we choose to consume is part of nourishment that keeps our body healthy and we as divine godforce engaged with our human experience here on Earth. Our body also needs nourishment of other sources. We need information that challenges, invites, and creates ... Continue Reading >>
Reality
What we call ‘reality’ is theatre… and someone else is writing the script. ... Continue Reading >>
Navigating Chaos: Change as Process
Few of us consider change beyond the event within which it rests. However, the simple act of Being human is in and of itself, a process... and within that one lives the inevitability of change as a sub-set of our humanness. Change requires an inhale to consider and an exhale to express the outcome of having chosen. Beyond the 'nitty gritty' details of ... Continue Reading >>
Jennifer Hatt: Tap Dancing in the Minefield of the Heart
"It’s a conversation that’s been a long time coming. On the outside things look fine; on the inside something is missing, feels off, irritates or just plain hurts. For years, explaining things away, rationalizing that things are great, good enough, okay, as much as we deserve since others have it a lot worse. Until either the body gives out or refuses to ... Continue Reading >>
Navigating Chaos: Emerging Species
I think it is both fair and accurate to say that 'overwhelm' is an internal state with which many can identify. To accept overwhelm as a part of today's currency is a wise decision - to succumb to it is a recipe for enslavement at many levels of our 'being'. In our recent 'Navigating Chaos' exploration, the topic was that of moving through loss. In ... Continue Reading >>
Overwhelm
It’s not that overwhelm is a bad thing. However, the tools we choose to engage while in that state of overwhelm will determine how resourceful we are able to remain. ... Continue Reading >>
What does ChatGPT have to say about WEL-Systems®
Recently, one of my colleagues decided to find out what ChatGPT had to say about WEL-Systems®. Here is what she found out... right from the cutting edge of AI. ======================= WEL-Systems® is a transformative approach to personal and professional development that focuses on empowering individuals to create meaningful and sustainable change in ... Continue Reading >>
Sheila Winter Wallace: Money and Uncertainty
"Hind sight is easy. Over the years, I have been approached by so many women who worked hard, looked good, were smart, savvy, and took their responsibilities with others seriously. Somehow, they forgot themselves; they forgot that they matter. All of these conversations were had privately or in small groups of women in safe spaces. And sometimes, it took ... Continue Reading >>
Navigating Chaos: Who will you choose to be?
And the beat goes on... and on... and on..... The drums of war - of war with ideas and concepts; with ourselves and each other; and perhaps, worst of all, with our own inner truth - are moving from a distant drone to a vibration in the chest, as they move closer to home. Decision time. No longer something 'out there' to be observed and dismissed as not ... Continue Reading >>
Being of Intention
Meaningful demands mindful. Are you a Being of Narrative or a Being of Intention? ... Continue Reading >>
Richard Dolan: Humanity at a Crossroads
So... one more thing to add to the already-too-long-and-overwhelming list of changes presenting in our daily lives. Richard Dolan has long been a voice of reason on a topic that engenders both fear and ridicule for any who seek to better inform themselves in their search for what 'truth' might be in this vast and boundless invitation to redefine both ... Continue Reading >>
Documentary: Canada is Dying (2023)
Says it all...... ... Continue Reading >>
Memory Lane: How then shall I live?
The more things change, the more they stay the same. I originally wrote this July 29, 2020. Almost three years ago... and yet, at some level, feels like a lifetime ago. Stop, for a moment, and consider what has unfolded in your life... your reality... over these last three years. And sadly, it's not over, yet - there is much more to come. Despite ... Continue Reading >>
Navigating Chaos: Touchstone for Transition
Given all that is tearing at us, seeking to capture our attention, the word 'chaos' seems to be almost too 'normal' to do justice to the great effort that is currently unfolding. And I do believe it to be an intentional effort to fracture our ability to trust ourselves and each other. More and more, less and less remains of our habituated ways of moving ... Continue Reading >>
Nassim Haramein: The Science of What We Are
One of his most recent, this conversation explores the concept of manifesting your life and what it takes to make that happen. As the exploration moves from the broad to the specific, Nassim clearly states that before we can manifest, we have to understand what we are. For those of you familiar with the WEL-Systems® journey of discovery, you will ... Continue Reading >>
Navigating Chaos: finding stability in the absurd
So... have been spending my time watching and listening and pondering and exploring. Noticing patterns, repeating. Not just listening TO but listening FOR the language that is the wave of intelligence seeking compliance through fear. Sadly, I have not had to search very hard nor for very long to have more than my fill. I've also been intentionally ... Continue Reading >>
Act now! Starts May 21st: year-long with Stela Murrizi
"The conversations we are in determine the quality of our lives. So stop wasting your life on conversations that are meaningless and unfulfilling. Embrace becoming, instead. BUT … How could you become massive when you keep your conversations small? How could you become mindful when you choose habituated and familiar conversations? How could ... Continue Reading >>
Resourceful and Resilient
Sometimes, we forget we're up for it... with 'it' being an intentional outcome of our own choosing. Just because 'the world' (out there) is not yet designed to facilitate it, does not mean that its facilitation is not possible. In the face of what seems to be the impossible, consider that its presence is really the provocation to consider: "How badly do ... Continue Reading >>
Desperate times demand daring intentions
In my most recent post, I shared with you a sound clip from a gathering of women seeking to explore what it takes to manifest their meaningful world. That first full day of conversation was greatly enriched by the depth and breadth of both willingness and ability of the women who were there. Each had many hours of living in and from a very different ... Continue Reading >>
Quality of Life
The life that we live is shaped by our perceptions of the life that we can live. ... Continue Reading >>
Naomi Wolf : What’s in the Pfizer documents?
What's in the Pfizer documents? ... Continue Reading >>
Grace
Grace. Much authenticity and ’truth’ can ride on the flow of Grace as it leaves your body into the Space that surrounds you. There is much power in Grace. Power to invite and allow; to attract and compel; to awaken and soothe. Grace allows for an authentic (yet, possibly jarring) expression to be able to be heard. A difficult, challenging truth can be ... Continue Reading >>
Manifestation
Manifestation is not a function of effort and the passage of time. It is a byproduct of your clear and sustained intention; in a dance with your body as it welcomes and relaxes into the waves of expansion of your Being. ... Continue Reading >>
Challenges
You are always greater than any challenge you will call into your Life. ... Continue Reading >>
Moments
Engaging from the moment you’re in is what's going to make a difference in your life - not the stories you tell about the ones you were in before. ... Continue Reading >>
Unstoppable emergence
Ah yes… the unstoppable power of emergence; of that natural and essential state of Being that demands constant and perpetual movement… and change… and evolution. That is the essence of who we are. In other words: we are not intended to ever be fully baked; to ever be ‘done’; to ever think that there is any end-state to which we can/must aspire… and all else ... Continue Reading >>
Selective truth of mind-share
The longer I live, the shorter my attention span becomes. It now takes a lot for me to be drawn to engage. The conversation is the key: how big, how far and how deep can it go? At this time in my own evolution, the desire to continue to evolve and become is greater than it has ever been. As more and more, science challenges our long-held thinking on who ... Continue Reading >>
Parenting: for good instead of evil
The process of parenting is the delivery mechanism for culture. Not good/bad, right/wrong... just the way it is. How mindful are we - as parents and parental surrogates - of the power of our influence to shape reality for developing, young minds? How directed are we, in that process, to ensure compliance rather than exploration and discovery? Consider ... Continue Reading >>
Surrender
Surrender… the truth that you are so sure is the right one. Surrender… your unwillingness to intentionally allow chaos to emerge. Surrender… the certainty of your habits for the uncertainty of your potential. Surrender… the truth of their evidence for the truth of your experience. Surrender… the path you’re on to the moment you’re ... Continue Reading >>
Before we can…
... we must be willing to face into and lay claim to all that has told us that we can't. Without that, we seek to spread the seeds of our potential on concrete... without breaking up the barrier and making way for the ability to penetrate to the nutrient-rich soil below. And in the face of bearing witness to that potential's inevitable and slow dying, we ... Continue Reading >>
Time
Your time is your life. Where you spend your time, how you spend your time and with whom you spend your time becomes the quality of your life, lived. Choose your moments mindfully and the rest will take care of itself. ... Continue Reading >>
Becoming Unglued
Constantly feeding the Fear Machine is essential. Without that undercurrent of fear, we become willing to slow down... and pause… and examine what becomes evident beyond our desperation for strategies to escape the moment we're in. With the passage of time, data accumulate that reveal the popcorn trail of where we have been. Bits and pieces begin to ... Continue Reading >>
Awakening inside a Collective Coma
What does it take for a collective to wake up? Is it even possible for a collective to wake up? A bunch of people shuffling in the same direction does not an intelligent organism make. If the individuals are not present, mindful and awake, putting a large number of them together does not increase intelligence but in truth, decreases it. The fine art of ... Continue Reading >>
Audacity: A salute to the women who dare…
It is not easy to be authentic in the living of your Life. The pressures to conform; to not stand out; to be reasonable and appropriate (whatever that means); to find the comfortable and acceptable middle ground that does not disturb… these override the inner drive to be fully present to and expressive of all that brings joy and meaning into your life! In ... Continue Reading >>
WEL-Systems® Body of Knowledge
The WEL-Systems® body of knowledge is a road map - not a destination. It does not seek to define us. It offers us a gateway to a paradigm and a process which, when engaged, make it possible for us to redefine ourselves. ... Continue Reading >>
The Matrix
We are living in a matrix of things not being what they appear to be; and the things that are ‘real’ so camouflaged as to be unrecognizable. ... Continue Reading >>
Imagining Your Life
I recently had an email exchange with a delightful young woman I have come to cherish. As I read her words, it occurred to me that the past continued to be the context within which the ability to choose had become 'frozen' in the face of imagined consequences. So, with that awareness in mind, I offered her a different perspective from which to consider ... Continue Reading >>
How, then, shall you choose?
In the last month or so, I’ve written about the relationship between choice and intention; and about the underpinnings of truth and its deep roots in the mind-shaping process of parenting (and its surrogates) who fly the flag of our best interests and keeping us safe. The pull to simply capitulate and abdicate to ‘the voice of (a caring) authority’ is a ... Continue Reading >>
Truth: the elusive Unicorn in our current reality
Brace for impact: incoming rant…. What is truth? Where does truth live? How do we know when we’ve found it? Like everyone else on the planet, I grew up believing that what I was told by those who tended to me on a daily basis (inside the family circle, i.e. parents/grandparents/older siblings) and their chosen surrogates (those outside the family ... Continue Reading >>
Our Children
Rather than embed submission to authority, were we to engender in our children a deep curiosity about themselves and their potential, the world would change profoundly in a single generation. ... Continue Reading >>
The Power to Design a Life
For some, these are curious times. For others, these are frightening, uncertain and chaotic times. At the very least, these are times that press us to either pay closer attention or dive deeper into our preferred strategy for avoidance. However it may be unfolding for you, the one unavoidable moment for any and all of us will be the one when we must choose. ... Continue Reading >>
Transformation
The power to transform does not lie in any particular 'correct' assumption. It lies in your willingness to tell the truth - out loud and in the presence of others - about the assumptions you already carry that you hold as truth. ... Continue Reading >>
Performance vs Meaningful Life
The threat of fear, shame and humiliation may provoke an increase in performance but they will never provoke the creation of a meaningful life. ... Continue Reading >>
The Battle for Souls
The war for people's souls will not be won at the lowest level of its stated outcomes but at the highest level of its intentions. ... Continue Reading >>
Impact
That we know, allows us to have opinions. That we engage, allows us to have impact. ... Continue Reading >>
Stela Murrizi: online Spa for the Soul
Start 2023 with a commitment to your own wellbeing... of body, mind and Sprit! Check out Stela's website for details on her new online offering of Return to Essence - a powerful, compelling, provocative and effective way to launch the new year with a mindfulness of Self-care. After all, if you don't do it for you - who will? ... Continue Reading >>
Treasures
Without exception, it is in that place where our deepest secrets are kept that our greatest treasures can be reclaimed. ... Continue Reading >>
Evidence Based Medicine: redefining health
What if the purported 'pandemic' has been but one small wave in a much larger sea of deception? How big are you willing to go? How open is your mind? How expansive is your willingness and ability to see the bigger picture; and to focus on context and process? You're about to find out.... ... Continue Reading >>
Denial
Denial is a treacherous comfort. That it is denied does not mean it will not have consequences. ... Continue Reading >>
Overwhelm….
Overwhelm can make you sick and crazy. Maybe. For the last five weeks, or so, I have been ’sick’ (which, for me, is a very rare occurrence). Supposedly, I ‘had’ the dreaded you-know-what. Seems that having two little grandchildren under five - both of whom are in the presence of many others through daycare and school; and a son in law-enforcement who is ... Continue Reading >>
Rats in a maze
Those who have known me, over time, know well that I do not see the world through the eyes of what is but through the potential of what might become. These last years that fit snugly under the banner of ‘pandemic’ have only served to bring into sharper relief the degree to which what seems to be ’the issue’ is but the distraction… the cover… for something ... Continue Reading >>
The Demise of Capitulation
What does it take? How deep - and contagious - is your fear? Why would you bother? Who else might you choose to become? Decades of cultural conditioning - supported at every turn by others equally conditioned and rewarded for being so - leave us wondering what's true and what isn't. In my era, that cultural conditioning came from the process of ... Continue Reading >>
Unique Life
Your desire for your own unique Life must be greater than your need for approval. ... Continue Reading >>
The Quest for Open Science: Nick Hudson/PANDA
Some are more courageous than others. Nick Hudson has been one, amongst many, from the start. The truth really does set us free. Are we willing to hear it? ... Continue Reading >>
Pandemic… of Shame
I know of no one who has been spared the drama and its attending impact from the last three years of constant pressure to capitulate and conform. To do what you're told. To not question. To be silent if not in agreement. To trust external authorities rather than your own internal cues. Over and over... day after day... pummelled by the talking heads, ... Continue Reading >>
Authenticity as Boundary
Over time and in many ways, the idea of establishing boundaries has been explored. Typically, it is done by way of identifying things to do; behaviours to change; new strategies to put into play that will prevent your being pressed... bullied.. cajoled, shamed or provoked... into choices that are no longer a choice and have become the imperative of another, ... Continue Reading >>
Intentional Evolution: provocation for a life worth living
So much in today's world seeks to highjack your attention and redirect... away from your own inner rumblings and toward the nails-on-a-chalk-board screech of yet another reason to be afraid; another reason to look outside of yourself for someone (anyone!) to save you; another reason for you to capitulate to your weenie-ness and inability to figure it out for ... Continue Reading >>
How the body works
The magic of a small child lives in their unquestionable trust of the deep intelligence that is their own body. There is no filter between the inner cue and external engagement. It takes pain - chronic and applied over time or intense, in a single burst - and from that pain descends the silencing of the natural, intuitive inner joy... replaced with a ... Continue Reading >>
Step 2: Be willing to change your mind
After 30+ years of experiencing and learning how to trust the many waves of discovery in the vast ocean of my own potential, it has become easier and much less of a struggle to be willing to change my mind. With a new insight… a new moment in time, deeply rooted in my own intuitive knowing… letting go of what was and embracing that which has proven to be ... Continue Reading >>
“Inside people’s heads… “
In previous posts, I have made reference to proven, existing intentions - backed by government policy - to accelerate implementation of transhumanism preferences. There is no longer any effort to hide any of it - it is in full view and under our noses... if we are willing to look. 'Nudge units' (also previously written about) continue to press our ... Continue Reading >>
Recalculating…
There are times when the temptation to move into silence and isolation is greater than my ability to choose otherwise. The cacophony of competing ’truths’ and ‘realities’ grind against each other and pulverize the last vestiges of my hope for a world that remains recognizable to me and, in any way, reflects the future I once held for my sons and their ... Continue Reading >>
Trust the Science… of what it is to be human.
The power in the science is not just knowing - it lies in the never-ending willingness to continue to explore, discover and know differently. In Gregg Braden's recent offering - Self-Empowerment through Self-Regulation - we are presented with the cutting-edge science of not just who but what we are as human beings. This science reveals to us the breadth, ... Continue Reading >>
Choosing ‘not that’ is a legitimate choice.
Standing in the ’now’… facing into the dark, vast empty Space that is my potential…. I AM the Light that will shine into existence some expression of meaning in my life. All things are possible, now that I am ready, willing and able to let go of my fascination with what has been (trusting QuantumTLC™ to attend to that, as required) that I might manifest what ... Continue Reading >>















































