Over time and in many ways, the idea of establishing boundaries has been explored. Typically, it is done by way of identifying things to do; behaviours to change; new strategies to put into play that will prevent your being pressed... bullied.. cajoled, shamed or provoked... into choices that are no longer a choice and have become the imperative of another, ... Continue Reading >>
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Intentional Evolution: provocation for a life worth living
So much in today's world seeks to highjack your attention and redirect... away from your own inner rumblings and toward the nails-on-a-chalk-board screech of yet another reason to be afraid; another reason to look outside of yourself for someone (anyone!) to save you; another reason for you to capitulate to your weenie-ness and inability to figure it out for ... Continue Reading >>
Redefining ourselves
Somewhere between rage, outrage and silence is the opportunity for us to redefine ourselves! ... Continue Reading >>
Without edges, compliance/conformity reign!
Neither I - nor anyone else - will talk you into or out of your commitment to what you believe. That profound and life-altering level of change can only come from within you. What I am doing here is pointing to higher-order intentions that direct it all… most (and I mean most) of which you are oblivious to. Why? Because you’ve been trained to be oblivious to ... Continue Reading >>
Stela Shakti: Part 2 – Warrior!
"In this type of mind, then, compliance is seen as the golden standard. Compliance to the narrative I have held as true since longer than I can remember. I believe the underlying logic of needing desperately to be right goes something like this: If I am right about my life, then I am good. If I am good, and I do everything right, then I am safe. This type of ... Continue Reading >>
Boundaries… and Beyond! ~ New podcast with Louise
In the midst of many and significant changes in my life, I had the great opportunity to be in an open, expansive and compelling conversation with 'open heart specialist' Deb Ozarko on her 'Unplug!' podcast. My conversations with Deb always lead me into new thoughts and through fields of potential, to that point untapped. In Episode 75 (Boundaries... and ... Continue Reading >>
Revisiting Possibility
Lots going on in my life, these days. Sometimes, I need to be reminded that I am always choosing; that I am always the one making the decisions and setting the boundaries on my world. I get to say 'yes' or 'no'; and I get to declare where I draw the line in the sand of my own being. Maybe you'd welcome that kind of reminder for yourself, in your life, ... Continue Reading >>