“How many children grow up to feel unwanted by their mothers? And then spend the rest of their lives trying desperately to “be somebody” while perpetually battling a perpetual inner war of never enough.
How many mothers mean to abandon their children?
What is abandonment, anyway?Perhaps we’ll start here. Because abandonment is a nominalization. It isn’t about what the official definition is; it’s about how it feels inside our being.
I don’t believe that to feel abandoned by one’s mother the mother has to have a malicious intent to leave her kid behind. I believe that more often than not, mothers abandon their children out of necessity.” (Stela Murrizi)
Another powerful exploration of the long-lingering effects of our childhood on the structure of our lives, as adults. There is no escaping that it is all connected… and the sooner we become both willing and able to explore and discover the patterns repeated in our unique lives, the sooner we dare to live our lives, differently.
“So perhaps it is time for you to awaken to your potential and become who you want your child to be. After all, modelling is our greatest teacher. Mothering can be such a tough process because of the intergenerational gifts that keep on giving! Until someone steps up and declares: Enough! ” (Stela Murrizi)