“I suppose you expect me to write that my whole world changed, that my perception of “who” I am shifted, that my whole life transformed. Truth of it is, I transformed my life long before I chose to become “mother”. I transformed it the moment I decided, viscerally, I was no longer wiling to be captive to abuse, addiction, drugs, self-destruction, self-loathing, self-deprivation, sacrifice, responsibility, money, consumption, drama and politics. During this continuous process of Self evolution, I chose to become a mother…not because society or my family expected me to, but because it was the journey of my Soul. …and nothing else mattered.“
Another potent and moving expression of her own discovery, enjoy Stela’s latest post on her experience of being ‘Mother’ with her 3MO son.